September 6, 2014 9:43 am -

[su_right_ad]Jay Williams seems unconcerned about what he’s done to his life, or how he can be a good father to 34 children.  He is on “Iyania Fix My Life” on OWN-TV.

In the show, the relationship expert known for her “no-nonsense” approach forces Williams to try to hold 34 baby dolls, but he can’t even fit them in his arms. She said she wanted to do this to give him a physical representation of his actions and their consequences, which he doesn’t always see in his daily life.

Williams’ eldest daughter is 26 years old and his youngest child is just 3 years old.

“Let me ask you this question, Jay. Thirty-four children,” said Iyanla during the therapy session. “At any point, did it dawn on you (that) this is too much?”

Williams appears detached during much of the video, saying that he didn’t think it was too many kids and that he would “probably have 200 kids” if he didn’t use protection.

Iyania also asks Williams why he did not consider getting a vasectomy if he planned to keep having sex with numerous women.

“I don’t want one,” he said. “I don’t have a problem with what I created.”

At one point, Williams put the 14 dolls he fit in his arms down onto a chair beside him because he was “tired of holding (them.)”

As he puts them down, Iyanla criticizes how he is treating them. He lets one fall to the floor and treats them without care in general. Then, she takes the dolls and places them back into his arms.


D.B. Hirsch
D.B. Hirsch is a political activist, news junkie, and retired ad copy writer and spin doctor. He lives in Brooklyn, New York.

30 responses to 34 Children With 17 Women

  1. Suzanne McFly September 6th, 2014 at 10:44 am

    Pretty sad life when all you feel you have to give to the world is your sperm

  2. uzza September 6th, 2014 at 11:46 am

    It’s a minor detail compared to his responsibilites re those children’s emotional well-being, but:
    Estimated cost of raising one child recently pegged at a quarter million dollars, so this so-called ‘man’ evidently has no problem with paying $8.5 million in child support. Right?

    • Anomaly 100 September 6th, 2014 at 1:22 pm

      Also, he picked the dolls up by their heads.

  3. Dwendt44 September 6th, 2014 at 12:06 pm

    He puts the Duggers to shame.

  4. mrsgunka September 6th, 2014 at 12:31 pm

    With all that procreating, how does he find time to work to pay for all that child support. He probably thinks the $170 a year ($5 in a birthday card) is sufficient on his part. That won’t even pay for a pair of flip-flops. Hope they all live in the south so they can wear them year around, and they all live within walking distance….in our state if you are behind, you lose your driver’s license. Maybe they are all living in the low-rent, high rise housing building…he just has to walk down a hall and climb some stairs! This is just not a black problem in America.

    • Carla Akins September 6th, 2014 at 5:54 pm

      He can’t even see all those that are still children. I won’t keep a pet at this time because I don’t think we’re home enough to be responsible pet owners – he’s nothing but a donor.

  5. rg9rts September 6th, 2014 at 2:24 pm

    Another pillar of the community…….relying on the community to pick up his shortfall

    • Denise September 6th, 2014 at 3:32 pm

      how do you know the community is footing the tab?

      • rg9rts September 6th, 2014 at 3:49 pm

        Like BK and McD’s they use the social safety net to pick up short falls

    • Candide Thirtythree September 6th, 2014 at 5:06 pm

      Like all the Mormon compounds with hundreds of women on welfare and food stamps and Medicaid for the thousands of children they father with no intention of ever supporting?

      The Duggars were on the dole before they got that show to pay for everything for them and they will be back on the dole once the show is over, just like all the Quiverfull cult members.

      It happens a lot more than you think, there are at least 50,000 that the government knows of and probably a lot more that they don’t know of.

      At least that guy is not driving all of his preadolescent sons to far away towns and dropping them off on the side of the road so that he does not have to share females with them like the Mormons do.

      • R.J. Carter September 6th, 2014 at 5:15 pm

        “The Duggars were on the dole before they got that show to pay for everything.”

        Citation needed. (Bear in mind, I know what businesses JimBob owns and how he makes his money.)

        • Candide Thirtythree September 6th, 2014 at 7:13 pm

          They could not even afford a house before that show came along, in the early episodes there were kids sleeping in the shed for christ sake!

          I know fundies love to romanticize that family but they get HUGE tax refunds for 19 deductions, I mean kids, so they don’t pay taxes, the older kids raise all the younger ones so they don’t pay child care like everyone else does, he gets a state check for life because he was a politician, the bottom fell out of the real estate market (Which is how he made money) but lucky for him he gets $40,000 a week for that show, money that he was NOT getting before the show started when all of his kids were on state run child medical insurance.

          So no, they were not getting a welfare check but there are LOTS of other ways to be on the dole.

          • R.J. Carter September 6th, 2014 at 7:17 pm

            1. Tax refunds for children are far from “huge.”
            2. Jim Bob Duggar did not win his bid for office.
            3. Jim Bob Duggar also makes money (before the show) from renting commercial properties to business, flipping houses, renting land to cell phone towers, etc.
            4. What’s wrong with state run medical insurance? I thought we were supposed to be behind that?
            5. I don’t pay child care, so your “everyone else does” generalization doesn’t hold water.

            So no, they were not getting a welfare check, but your redefinition of the dole fails.

          • Candide Thirtythree September 8th, 2014 at 3:42 pm

            Like I said, the could not even afford a house before that show so they did not have any money before they started getting millions every year for that show.

            1. The refund is $3,800 per kid and they have 19 of them, most under 18. so yea that is huge
            2. “From 1999 to 2002, Duggar served in the Arkansas House of Representatives for the sixth district, which included part of northern Washington County, Arkansas” … that is from his Bio.

            I just sold a farm in Arkansas and land there goes for less than $2,000 an acre… this is NOT NY or California, you do not make much on anything there, it is a poverty state just like Louisiana and Mississippi.

            3. My mom also rented and flipped properties, after all the expenses you barely break even, she also rented land to for a cell tower, she got $300 a month for it… in Alabama… which is just as sad a state as Arkansas, you never get much in those states, he probably got less.


            4. YOU are the one saying he was rich, if he was not poor his kids could not be on state aid.

            5. you don’t have small children… if she had to pay daycare for 5 or 6 babies, she would put out more than she could make.

            Nope, the dole is anything that you get from the government because you make too little in income to support them.

            I don’t know why you are so adamant about defending people who were on the dole but support the party that takes it away from others. They got theirs and now they are fighting to keep anyone else from getting the same thing they took advantage of all by their own doing… they had more kids than they can support and so do all those other couples that make appearances on that show with them.

            That is a lot of over population and a lot of neglected children who are being raised by siblings.

            There is ZERO honorable or noble about those people.

          • R.J. Carter September 9th, 2014 at 2:11 pm

            Six of the kids are no longer minors.
            They built they house.
            Land in Northwest Arkansas goes at a higher price than the rest of the state (because Walmart).
            I don’t know why you are so adamant about claiming someone who is an entrepreneur is on the dole.

      • rg9rts September 6th, 2014 at 5:27 pm

        Here is a tip…. when you write a book no one pays attention. Parsimony….look it up

  6. juicyfruityyy September 6th, 2014 at 3:06 pm

    I wouldn’t have a child by a person, who have so many children, already. I don’t see this person as being responsible.

  7. Denise September 6th, 2014 at 3:27 pm

    If he were white, the GOP would be patting him on the back.

    • R.J. Carter September 6th, 2014 at 4:00 pm

      Example of this?

      • Candide Thirtythree September 6th, 2014 at 4:57 pm

        The Duggars

        • R.J. Carter September 6th, 2014 at 5:14 pm

          Born to one wife. Supports them on his own. Apples to bicycles comparison.

          • Candide Thirtythree September 6th, 2014 at 7:17 pm

            So all this guy has to do is get TLC to pay him 40 grand a week and he can support his kids the same way the Duggars do now?

            They did not always have that show you know, they were on the dole before some production company started paying them to have more kids.

          • Tallones September 7th, 2014 at 11:13 am

            Absolutely! The Duggars don’t drop their babies nor show indifference. I’ll bet this guy hasn’t seen or spoken to some of his children for years. I would not want to watch this train wreck in a t.v. series. The Duggars have a lot to teach us and it’s not just about religion.

  8. R.J. Carter September 6th, 2014 at 4:06 pm

    So she’s a Geraldine Springer?

    • Carla Akins September 6th, 2014 at 5:51 pm

      I think she’s worse. Springer makes no effort to defend what he does or allude to “helpful intervention”.

  9. Budda September 6th, 2014 at 4:10 pm

    I assume he can’t support 34 children so where are all the screaming cons about welfare? Do anti- contraception and abortion advocates condone this? And what about the women the know of the others? Etc.

    • R.J. Carter September 6th, 2014 at 4:17 pm

      According to his own statement, he does use contraception. That’s why he only has 34 instead of “200” (his estimation).

      Cons are afraid to yell. They’ll be asked to provide more examples and be accused of making generalizations.

  10. fancypants September 6th, 2014 at 5:27 pm

    on the good side .. at least its not rape
    on the bad side… wait until they are old enough for college

  11. sheila September 13th, 2014 at 10:49 pm

    THIS MAN NEEDS TO BE IN JAIL, the fact that he is still talking about more kids and marriage,,,hood rat ass man,,,,,and these stupid ass women ,,his looks got them,,,ok fact is,,STD CAME IN THE PIC,,he was fucking a different women per month,,,twins were born,,a baby born every year and more than one was born every year,,also the ones that just has babies probably went for a 6 weeks checkup was pregnant again,,he talks dum as hell,,,and while they were pregnant he was on the next getting her pregnant,,this ,he acts like he is desperate ,,saw ass and tits and went crazy,,,and trust me there are so many like hime ..tjis is so crazy and they want to blame his parents,,this man is grown,,just lock his ass up

  12. sheila September 13th, 2014 at 10:56 pm

    most hood rat women are desperate,,low self asteem,,,,and is a target to this action,,he didn’t do it alone,,,but black households are ran by woman as head of household and this is why,,his old ass is a old hoe and he aint done yet,,,what is the point to be on this show ,,what to get money,,so Atlanta c has added on 34 kids without a daddy..